Wow, I looked at my blog the other day and it's been much too long! For most of last week, I was fighting a cold and thus, no work. I stayed bundled up in my quilt and read The Lost Girls in between cold medicine-fueled naps.
If you like graphic novels... no, even if you don't, you'll probably enjoy Lost Girls. It reads more like an old-fashion erotic picture book, all naked bodies and beautiful watercolor orgy scenes. The story turns a few traditional fairy tales on their heads, giving them twisted sexual overlays. I love twisted fairy tales, and the erotic retelling of some of my favorites (Peter Pan, Alice in Wonderland, Wizard of Oz) was all I needed to super charge my dreams into mini sex movies.
Sufficed to say, I am even more eager for a bit of Thanksgiving "stuffing" before Thursday comes around!
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Sunday, November 7, 2010
Sexual Fantasies Help you Focus
The original link: http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=how-fantasies-affect-focus
I may need to make a special trip to Barnes & Noble to get this issue of Scientific America.
"Fantasizing about sex gets more than just your juices flowing—it also boosts your analytical thinking skills. Daydreaming about love, on the other hand, makes you more creative, according to a study published in the November 2009 Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin."
Is this why musicians always sing songs about love? Or maybe this is why noon is a popular time for appointments? I figured it would be easier to concentrate after a good orgasm, but perhaps the fucking also puts some guys in a better frame of mind for their jobs after lunch?
I may need to make a special trip to Barnes & Noble to get this issue of Scientific America.
"Fantasizing about sex gets more than just your juices flowing—it also boosts your analytical thinking skills. Daydreaming about love, on the other hand, makes you more creative, according to a study published in the November 2009 Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin."
Is this why musicians always sing songs about love? Or maybe this is why noon is a popular time for appointments? I figured it would be easier to concentrate after a good orgasm, but perhaps the fucking also puts some guys in a better frame of mind for their jobs after lunch?
Sunday, October 31, 2010
Essential Traveling Items
I pack a fresh bag each time I'm going to an incall, and try to show off my favorite new outfit or lipstick shade. The styles and colors may change with the season. There is the standard toothbrush and toiletries, these are not unique to any bag, but there are a few items that I consider essential to ply my trade and feel at my sexiest.
-Kimono. Terry cloth robes are warm, but they are too bulky for me. I enjoy the wide sleeves and breeziness of the fabric. If I was limited to a single piece of clothing, this would be it.
-Condoms & Lube. This probably goes without saying, I couldn't do very much without them. I like to bring a variety of sizes, flavored & unflavored. Liquid Silk is my favorite brand of lube--everything is more fun with lube! What's great about this one too, is it's very neutral in flavor and doesn't get tacky.
-Toys. I have a slowly growing collection of toys, for a variety of play. These are usually brought out only in longer sessions or for doubles. However, I always have them in case of a special request!
-Stockings. I dress pretty casual out in public, so dressing up for a private date is a special thing for me. As I've said before, stockings just feel sexy.
-Fresh fruit & healthy snacks. I love most fruit and vegetables, as long as they are fresh. And it so much better than eating take out or pizza while I am kitchen-less. I'm on the look out for honey crisp apples this season, and filling up on plums, peaches and blueberries in the meantime.
-Kimono. Terry cloth robes are warm, but they are too bulky for me. I enjoy the wide sleeves and breeziness of the fabric. If I was limited to a single piece of clothing, this would be it.
-Condoms & Lube. This probably goes without saying, I couldn't do very much without them. I like to bring a variety of sizes, flavored & unflavored. Liquid Silk is my favorite brand of lube--everything is more fun with lube! What's great about this one too, is it's very neutral in flavor and doesn't get tacky.
-Toys. I have a slowly growing collection of toys, for a variety of play. These are usually brought out only in longer sessions or for doubles. However, I always have them in case of a special request!
-Stockings. I dress pretty casual out in public, so dressing up for a private date is a special thing for me. As I've said before, stockings just feel sexy.
-Fresh fruit & healthy snacks. I love most fruit and vegetables, as long as they are fresh. And it so much better than eating take out or pizza while I am kitchen-less. I'm on the look out for honey crisp apples this season, and filling up on plums, peaches and blueberries in the meantime.
Monday, October 25, 2010
Stockings
It's been a luxuriously long week off for me, much of the time spend visiting with an old college friend. It was his first time in the city, and almost five years since we'd seen each other. I do love playing the tour guide and sharing my love for my city. I even visited a church without bursting into flames!
I try to take regular times off each month, but by the end, I'm always so bored that I want to jump straight back into taking appointments again. I did find some time to take more pictures. After getting several stockings in the mail, I wanted to show off my growing collection!
Cuban heels and seamed stockings are ever my favorite--there's something classic about them. But this new pale pink pair is wonderful too! I like how delicate and feminine they seem, and how they play off my pale skin. Tell me what you think!
I try to take regular times off each month, but by the end, I'm always so bored that I want to jump straight back into taking appointments again. I did find some time to take more pictures. After getting several stockings in the mail, I wanted to show off my growing collection!
Cuban heels and seamed stockings are ever my favorite--there's something classic about them. But this new pale pink pair is wonderful too! I like how delicate and feminine they seem, and how they play off my pale skin. Tell me what you think!
Friday, October 15, 2010
Books
After reading Obsidian Butterfly, I've decided I really like the Anita Blake character. It's somehow relaxing to read about someone with a more complicated love life and a more harrowing job than me! (I kid.) I just love women who kick ass, with their deadly grace.
With that finished, I've turned my mind to non-fiction and more intellectual reads. When I read, I like to go back and forth between fiction and non-fiction.
I just recently received Hos, Hookers, Call Girls and Rent Boys and it's become my hotel book. Picking my way through the stories when I have a few moments, it's great to read the stories of others. Their stories are voices of encouragement and empowerment. Thank you for this book. I'm combining this read with Starhawk's Truth or Dare: Encounters with Power, Authority and Mystery. It touches on issues of female empowerment, authority of self and other, magic and seeking enlightenment in shadow work--all topics that mix well with sex work.
I'm coming up to my 10th month, and look on my mostly positive experiences. And honestly, the more I do it, the more I look forward to doing more. I enjoy the polite, secret game that is played during a dinner. I like invoking that spirit of desire, the excitment of newness even in my regular clients. I enjoy playing the role of the courtesan, the brazen whore--the more I do, the more comfortable it comes. I see myself doing this for some time, years, building a foundation of experience that will continue to build. I don't know how long the path will be, but I'm going to enjoy each step as I follow it where it leads.
With that finished, I've turned my mind to non-fiction and more intellectual reads. When I read, I like to go back and forth between fiction and non-fiction.
I just recently received Hos, Hookers, Call Girls and Rent Boys and it's become my hotel book. Picking my way through the stories when I have a few moments, it's great to read the stories of others. Their stories are voices of encouragement and empowerment. Thank you for this book. I'm combining this read with Starhawk's Truth or Dare: Encounters with Power, Authority and Mystery. It touches on issues of female empowerment, authority of self and other, magic and seeking enlightenment in shadow work--all topics that mix well with sex work.
I'm coming up to my 10th month, and look on my mostly positive experiences. And honestly, the more I do it, the more I look forward to doing more. I enjoy the polite, secret game that is played during a dinner. I like invoking that spirit of desire, the excitment of newness even in my regular clients. I enjoy playing the role of the courtesan, the brazen whore--the more I do, the more comfortable it comes. I see myself doing this for some time, years, building a foundation of experience that will continue to build. I don't know how long the path will be, but I'm going to enjoy each step as I follow it where it leads.
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Gifts
To be honest, I created a wish list on a whim, not really expecting anything. It was a real surprise and delight the first time I received a package! Shiny new purple butt beads to add to my growing toy collection. I let the anticipation build, and finally had to pull it out for some fun!
After some proper lubing, the beads slid in slow, my friend working them in slow. The taper is great, and as the balls grow larger, I can feel my clit throbbing, pussy aching for penetration. The next one feels almost too large, but it's the last one and it locks in place. When he pushes inside, I can feel the toy rub against him and it's a short, wild ride to orgasm. A great toy, thank you so much!
I also love my growing collection of stockings and lingerie. Pantyhose has it's purpose, but stockings just feel naughty. While dressed, it's one of those little sexy secrets, like lacy bras and panties under a t-shirt.
So, again, thanks to anyone who's given this harlot tribute. ;)
After some proper lubing, the beads slid in slow, my friend working them in slow. The taper is great, and as the balls grow larger, I can feel my clit throbbing, pussy aching for penetration. The next one feels almost too large, but it's the last one and it locks in place. When he pushes inside, I can feel the toy rub against him and it's a short, wild ride to orgasm. A great toy, thank you so much!
I also love my growing collection of stockings and lingerie. Pantyhose has it's purpose, but stockings just feel naughty. While dressed, it's one of those little sexy secrets, like lacy bras and panties under a t-shirt.
So, again, thanks to anyone who's given this harlot tribute. ;)
Friday, September 24, 2010
Temple of the Red Lotus
It's time for another post about my pet subject: sacred harlotry. Recently, I came across this site: Temple of the Red Lotus. A temple of sacred sex in FL that has workshops and offers priestess training as a Qadishtu (another term for sacred harlot, although more specific.)
I like a lot of what they say, but when I compare it to the world of RB, it's a little plain, and just a little on the stuffy side. If someone is really interested in the topic, there's much to learn, but I'm not sure I could run the same business using that terminology.
One of the best parts about this is the *fun* and a bit of glitz with naughtiness sprinkles. There's a spiritual aspect in serving and giving pleasure, but with that is providing a fun and entertaining experience. It's about finding that little something and enjoying the moment. Of course, there's the business parts of it too, but I don't find the sex to be business-like at all. I don't ever want it to be business-like. And as long as it stays fresh for me, I'll keep going.
I like a lot of what they say, but when I compare it to the world of RB, it's a little plain, and just a little on the stuffy side. If someone is really interested in the topic, there's much to learn, but I'm not sure I could run the same business using that terminology.
One of the best parts about this is the *fun* and a bit of glitz with naughtiness sprinkles. There's a spiritual aspect in serving and giving pleasure, but with that is providing a fun and entertaining experience. It's about finding that little something and enjoying the moment. Of course, there's the business parts of it too, but I don't find the sex to be business-like at all. I don't ever want it to be business-like. And as long as it stays fresh for me, I'll keep going.
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