FAQ Section

How do I arrange to see you?
The first step is to introduce yourself, if we haven't met.  E-mail is best. You can include a bit about yourself and a provider reference (the name and contact info of a provider you have seen before, please your number too.)

What if I don't have a reference?

If you don't have a reference, then we will need to meet in a casual public setting first.  This is for my benefit and yours--we get a chance to feel each other out before committing to a paid appointment.

What are your rates?
I've chosen not to publish my rates on my personal blog. You've probably come to this site from one of my ads on MyRedBook or Eros, which have my rates. You can also email me.

So what is this sacred harlotry thing all about?
I never really got the "sex is sinful" thing--it's something that comes natural to our bodies and to our natures. Sacred harlotry or sacred intimacy is about acknowledging that sex is healthy, can be healing  and even spiritual. These ancient priestess-whores were conduits to the Divine.

It is my path that allows me to forge genuine connections, to practice open-hearted and open-minded. There should be no guilt in seeking these pleasures.

This isn't gonna get preachy, is it?


No. We don't ever have to mention it in our time together. It's my personal pathwork that I hope you won't be completely disinterested in, but I have no intent to preach or convert. However, if you are just looking for a quick bang with no care for who it is, then we probably won't get along well.

Are your glasses real?


I think it's funny, but I get asked this a lot.  Yes, I've been wearing glasses for years. This pair is just the latest and greatest.


Can I take you out to a dinner or a show?
Yes. I have a special dinner date rate of $50 with no time limit. We can use this as an introductory meeting or perhaps you'd just like a dinner or theater companion.  I love the theater, classical music and jazz.

Can I buy you a gift?
Although a gift or tip is not expected, I am always delighted to receive gifts. I have an Amazon Wishlist for specific things, or just to get an idea of what I like. A gift card to Victoria's Secret or Rainbow Grocery are doubly appreciated.

Do you have piercings or tattoos?
I have a small nose stud and ear piercings that I can take out if you'd prefer, but they are all fairly subtle. I also have a small tattoo on my back, which is usually covered by regular clothing.

How will you be dressed?
I like to take requests and enjoy dressing up in tasteful, sexy clothing for dinner dates. Sometimes, a little casual but always put together. For incalls, I often relax in lingerie to meet you.

Do you travel for clients?
Yes, and I love to travel!  I'd be happy to travel to most locations, near and far, but the details are best worked out by e-mail.  For longer and further traveling adventures, identity verification will be necessary and travel expenses included.

Are you 420 friendly?
I got rid of my dreadlocks a long time ago (true story) but I am 420 friendly.  Feel free to mention such in setting up an appointment if you'd like to partake for a groovy frame of mind. ;)